Max
Paraparaumu

After 2 years of a good relationship I am solo again. My girlfriend and I (both from Paraparaumu) broke up a few days ago. Unhappy, but perhaps it may be the best for both of us. To try and get over things and move on, I wanted to try online dating and went to sign up at eHarmony. For those who don't know what it means to sign up - you have to answer more than 400 questions to get your character analysed (for the matchmaking) I spend a good hour answering these questions one by one. Again, my self-esteem is low currently due to the break up and here's the priceless message I receive: "Sorry - you cannot register!" Whaaaat? I went directly to Elitesingles. They took me happily. So much better anyway.

GLENN
Paraparaumu

I've found that online dating like Match.com is a true numbers game. In a given week, if I am not seeing anybody currently, I might send four to seven messages per week to women I find beautiful and interesting. I take care to personalize my messages, showing evidence that I have read the profile of the woman, and always include one or two questions with which to engage her. Normally, one or two of the contacts will answer.

TIM
Paraparaumu

I'm single since two years and after being alone for so much time I have decided to register with some services for online dating in Paraparaumu. I have also installed different dating apps such as Tinder and Badoo. Beyond of that I have signed up on Match.com and aff. I'm not successful on Tinder. I've got a few matches but almost no replies. A few chats ended abruptly. Adult Friend Finder is a scam in my opinion. I think all the ladies are fakes. They message me but if I ask them to meet up, no one answers. Elitesingles seems to be a good website. No tangible success yet, but there is much more activity going on. Unfortunately Elitesingles costs some money. You need to sign up for a subscription in order to be able to chat with girls.