TROY
Whanganui

After a few years of a very good relationship I am solo again. My girlfriend and I (both from Whanganui) broke up a few months ago. Unhappy, but perhaps it is the best for us. To try and get over things and move on, I wanted to test online dating and went to create an account at eHarmony. For those who don't know what it means to sign up - you have to answer more than 400 questions to get your personality analysed (for the matchmaking) I spend one hour answering these questions. Again, my self-esteem is pretty low currently due to the break up and here's the message I receive: "Sorry - you cannot sign up!" What? I went directly to Elitesingles. They took me happily. So much better anyway.

JANICE
Whanganui

By the time I took the decision I was ready to date again after my last relationship ended, it was mid 2014, and I already had an Elitesingles login which I had used to inspect the profiles of my friends and coworkers in Whanganui. Little did I know I'd try online dating myself. I'm not the kind of person who acts under the assumption that single men, by goodness of their being single and unattached, would be attracted in a relationship with me. So I'm not going to approach someone interesting and start sending endless messages with the intent to ask them for a date. What I found good about online dating was the framework it provided. Sure, you are meeting strangers, but you are meeting strangers who have pre-tested you in some way. Just knowing that the man you're meeting is considering you the same way, you are considering him, takes a lot of pressure off.

TONY
Whanganui

I'm single since three years and after being lonely for so long I have decided to register with some services for online dating in Whanganui. I have also installed different dating apps such as Tinder and Badoo. Moreover I have registered with Match.com and aff. I'm not successful on Tinder. I've got a few matches but almost no replies. A few chats ended sooner than expected. Adult Friend Finder is a scam in my opinion. I think all the ladies are not real. They message me but if I ask them to meet up, no replies. Elitesingles seems to be a good website. No tangible success yet, but there is much more activity going on. Unfortunately Elitesingles costs some money. You need to sign up for a subscription in order to be allowed to chat with girls.