PERRY
Lower Hutt

After two years of a very good relationship I am solo again. My girlfriend and I (both from Lower Hutt) broke up a couple of days ago. Unhappy, but undoubtedly it may be the best for us. To try and get over things and move on, I decided to test online dating and went to create an account at eHarmony. For those who don't know what it means to sign up - you have to answer more than 400 questions to get your character analysed (for the matchmaking) It took me more than half a hour to complete the test. Again, my self-esteem is low right now due to the break up and here's the priceless feedback I receive: "Sorry - you cannot sign up!" WTF? I went directly to Elitesingles. They took me happily. So much better anyway.

JEANNIE
Lower Hutt

When I decided I was ready to see anyone new after my last love ended, it was end 2014, and I already had an Elitesingles login which I had used to check out the profiles of my friends in Lower Hutt. I'm not really the kind of woman who acts with the opinion that single men, by virtue of their being single and unattached, would be attracted in a relationship with me. So I'm not going to approach someone cute and start sending endless messages with the intent to ask them for a date. What I found pleasant about online dating was the framework it provided. Sure, you are meeting strangers, but you are meeting strangers who have pre-vetted you in some way by looking at your profile. Just knowing that the person you're meeting is considering you the same way, you are considering him, takes a lot of pressure off.

MARION
Lower Hutt

I have registered with Oasis a while ago and I want to warn all the ladies from Lower Hutt here. 99% of the guys who are on Oasis are fucking idiots. The majority of them just want to hook up. Many of them were telling me they wanted a relationship but de facto they just wanted to f**ck. I have dated two different men. The first one was handsome and educated. We came together after one week. After we have slept together, he told me that he doesnít want a relationship. The second one was dating two other girls at the same time. He was always occupied with work. In fact he was having fun with all of us several times during the week. Of course this is just my personal experience. I don't want to blame dating websites at all. I will definitely sign up with other services for online dating in Lower Hutt. Thanks for the list. I will share my story in the near future again.