Elvin
Motueka

Nice overview. Thanks for putting together! I have tried match. It is now good to see that there are much more suitable services for dating in Motueka. I liked match, but there is one problem. Once you become a premium member you can start chatting with girls. You can send e-mails to all the girls who are liested in your search results. Unfortunately you can't see who is a paying member or not and only premium users can answer your messages. Even if some members want to to answer your message, they are not able to do so if they do not pay any money. This was a bit discouraging, because there are plenty of members who don't email you back and you doít really know if they are just free members or if they just donít have any interest.

LEROY
Motueka

I've found that dating on a NZ dating website Match.com is nothing but a real numbers game. In a given week I might send four to seven messages a week to women I find beautiful and interesting. I take good care to personalize the messages, showing evidence that I have read the woman's profile, and include one or two questions with which to engage her. Normally, one or two of the women will answer.

JUNE
Motueka

I have signed up on Oasis a a few month ago and I want to warn all the ladies here. 99,99% of the guys who are on Oasis are crazy. All of them just want to hook up. They pretended to want a relationship but in truth they just wanted to have some fun. I have met two different men. The number one was nice and educated. After the 2nd date we become a couple. After we have slept together, he told me that he doesnít want a relationship. The second one was dating two other ladies in parallel. He seemed to be busy all the time. But to tell you the truth he was having sex with all the other ladies several times a week. I know, it's just my personal experience on Oasis. I don't give up with online dating. I will definitely test other services for dating in Motueka. The overview above is helpful. Thanks. I will share my story in the near future again.