LESLIE
Christchurch

Great overview. Thx! I have tried match. But I know that there are much more suitable services for dating in Christchurch. I liked match, but there is one issue. Once you premium subscription you can start writing with girls. You can send messages to all the girls who are liested in your search results. Sadly you can't see who is a paying member or not and only premium users can respond to your messages. Even if some users would like to reply to you, they are not able to do so if they do not pay anything. This was a bit discouraging, because there are plenty of members who don't reply and you doít really know if they are non paying members or if they are just not interested.

EMMETT
Christchurch

I've found that dating on a NZ dating website Match.com is a true numbers game. In a given week I might send 3-8 messages a week to women I find attractive and somehow interesting. I take care to personalize my messages, showing evidence that I have read the profile of the woman, and always include one or two questions with which to engage her. Usually, 1-2 of the contacts will write back.

CINDY
Christchurch

I have registered with Oasis a a few weeks ago and I want to warn all the women here. The majority of the men who are using Oasis are insane. The majority of them just want sex. Some of them were telling me they wanted a relationship but in reality they just wanted to have some fun. I have met two different men. The number one was handsome and knowledgable. After a few days we become a couple. After having sex together, he told me that he doesnít want a relationship. The other one was dating two other women in parallel. He was always occupied with work. In fact he was having fun with all the other girls several times a week. Of course this is just my personal experience. I donít want to blame online dating at all. I will certainly test other services for dating in Christchurch. The overview above is great. Thanks. I hope to share my new experiences soon.