NORMAN
Waitakere

My girlfriend and I (both from Waitakere) broke up a few days ago. Unhappy, but maybe it is the best for us. To try and get over things and move on, I wanted to try online dating and went to create an account at eHarmony. For those who don't know what it means to sign up - you have to answer more than 400 questions to get your character analysed (for the matchmaking) I spend a good hour answering these questions one by one. Again, my self-esteem is pretty low currently due to the break up and here's the priceless feedback I get: "Sorry - you can't sign up!" Whaaaat? I went directly to Elitesingles. They took me happily. Seems to be better anyway.

MEREDITH
Waitakere

By the time I realised I was ready to see anyone new after my last relationship ended, it was spring 2014, and I already had an Elitesingles login which I had used to inspect the profiles of my friends in Waitakere. I'm not really the kind of woman who operates under the assumption that single men, by asset of their being single and unattached, would be fascinated in a relationship with me. So I'm not going to approach someone handsome and start sending endless messages with the intent to ask them out. What I found pleasant about online dating was the situation it provided. Of course, you are meeting strangers, but you are meeting strangers who have pre-tested you in some way. Already knowing that the person you're meeting is considering you the same way, you are considering him, takes a lot of pressure off.

PEARL
Waitakere

I have registered with Oasis a some time ago and I want to warn all the women from Waitakere here. 99% of the men who are using Oasis are fucking idiots. All of them just want sex. They were telling me they wanted a relationship but de facto they just wanted to f**ck. I have met two different guys. The number one was attractive and educated. After the 2nd date we become a couple. After having sex together, he told me that he is not ready for a relationship. The other one was dating two other ladies in parallel. He seemed to be busy all the time. In fact he was sleeping with all the other ladies more times during the week. Of course this is just my personal experience. I don't give up with online dating. I will certainly test other services for online dating in Waitakere. The overview above is really useful. Thanks. Happy to report about my experiences soon.