CHRISTOPHER
Upper Hutt

Great overview. Thx! I have tried match. It is now good to see that there are some other recommended services for dating in Upper Hutt. Actually Match wasn't that bad, but there is one issue. Once you become a premium member you can start writing with girls. You can send e-mails to all the ladies who are liested in your search results. Unfortunately you can't see who is a premium member or not and only premium users can reply to your messages. Even if some users would like to to answer your message, they are not able to do so if they do not pay anything. This was a bit discouraging, because there are lots of users who don't email you back and you doít really know if they are just free members or if they just donít have any interest.

JON
Upper Hutt

I think that dating on a NZ dating website like OK Cupid is a true numbers game. In a given week I might write 3-8 messages per week to women I find beautiful and interesting. I take care to personalize the messages, to show that I have read the profile of the woman, and include 1-2 questions with which to engage her. Usually, 1-2 of the women will write back.

ROBIN
Upper Hutt

I have signed up on Oasis a a couple of month ago and I have to warn all the ladies out there. Many men who are using Oasis are insane. All of them just want sex. Some of them pretended to want a relationship but in reality they just wanted to fuck. I have dated two different guys. The No. 1 was handsome and intelligent. We came together after one week. After we have slept together, he told me that he doesnít want a relationship. The other one was dating two other ladies at the same time. He was always occupied with work. But the truth is that he was having sex with all the other women more times a week. Of course this is just my personal story. I donít want to blame online dating at all. I will definitely sign up with other services for dating in Upper Hutt. Many thanks for the summary above. I hope to share my new experiences soon.